Many Christian's Are Also Victim's of Domestic Violence At Home

If you think that domestic violence doesn't affects Christian's then you are wrong, it happens more often than not. Sadly it is such a hidden thing that even most pastor's don't even know when someone in their church is being affected by DV. In my opinion churches need to implement free literature on DV and support systems for that area as many could benefit from it and that could be the only place they can get the information form when in a DV situation and sometimes not even then. Those who are affected by DV have learned to hide the pain behind a smile many because they feel ashamed and scared. Do not look down on anyone in such a situation, you cannot understand if you have not been in that situation. Most victim's are fearful of not only the abuser but also of judgment from others if they were to learn of their situation. You cannot force anyone out of a DV situation, but you can offer prayer, love and support. Domestic violence isn't limited just to physical violence it also can include but not limited to the following,verbal, emotional and mental abuse etc.If someone tells you that you are stupid, incompetent, ignorant, ugly, etc that is a form of abuse, if someone blames you for their bad behavior and makes you feel guilty for their choices that is a form of abuse, if they guilt you with threats of leaving and/or suicide that is a form of manipulative abuse, etc. Know that you are not alone, that there are options, support groups and ways to get out. Do not let others shame you for what you are going through. Put God first, pray and ask Him to show you what to do and where to go. You are always welcome to comment here or private inbox me at tchristi41@aol.com I am not a Dr. or a certified counselor I am however a survivor of domestic abuse, childhood sexual abuse, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, severe obesity, etc. I am here to help if I can.
Also check out www.whengeorgiasmiles.org a site that Dr. Phil's wife stared that has a free app to help keep you safe, I hope you will go to the site and check it out and download the free app. Be safe, be aware and be blessed....  Teresa